I can’t remember if I’ve written about this before or not, but since I don’t know how to search LJ and I don’t add all my entries to memories, I’ll write it anyway. boniblithe is involved with a great many fandoms in a great many ways, and she really opened my eyes to the time, energy, thought, and passion that people put into their various fandoms.
So, I started to think about what shows/movies I care about or have cared about in my life. There have been different levels of attraction, but none has ever driven me to writing fiction, creating videos, or attending conventions. I did, however, resort to reading Star Trek fiction written by other people, and for awhile, when I was really depressed, I would have Star Trek dreams.
There are only a handful of shows I can watch over and over again. M*A*S*H was the first, and still one of the best. I also love other sitcoms from that period, like Mary Tyler Moore, Bob Newhart, and Rhoda.
There is one Britcom which holds a tremendous attraction for me, and that’s As Time Goes By. I love the quiet understanding of the main characters, and the love and respect and humor that all the characters share with each other. There have been so many times that I wished I could end my day having a cocktail with those characters.
I think the show that I’ve become most involved with has to be Northern Exposure. I’ve always loved the show, and now that it’s on the Hallmark channel every night at 11, I Tivo it. When this show first came on, I was intrigued, and I became more so as it progressed. I was so intrigued, that, when I still lived in NJ, and my mother was visiting Seattle, I asked her to drive to Roslyn, WA, so she could visit it and tell me what it was like. I loved the “utopian” society portrayed in this show. I loved the gentle humor, the radio show that played eclectic music (and oh boy do I love Chris in the Morning). Perhaps my greatest tribute to this show is that I actually ended up moving out here. Yes, I came for a job, but I think knowing that it looked like that out here helped. I watch the show now and I realize that every single day I look at the other side of the mountains they’re looking at, and they’re fishing in a river that eventually flows just a few miles past my house. A few years ago on my birthday, the Sweetie brought me out to Roslyn and we enjoyed a quiet day there. They still have the town set up like it is in the show and you can go into Dr. Fleischmann’s office, and look through the window of the radio station.
Anyway, you can see I’m quite devoted (in my own way).
I thought about the shows that I’ve loved, and I realized that they all have some things in common. I’m still digesting what it means. They’re all ensemble shows, with quiet humor, and the characters basically like each other. Here’s the kicker. No kids. None of them have kids in lead roles…heck, Northern Exposure has no kids at all, really.
So, there are my fandoms, Boni, as boring as they may be.